My Father at a glance;

 

I am so close to my dad and will be forever. With all innocence my dad is perfect hero and a dad for me as every father is power to their child. We have a big age gap that I couldn’t imagine about my dad and mom love story. I am unknown to all these transitions of life that they spent. It becomes story for me when they recite me about their childhood, early life and marriage. I couldn’t do anything except i can listen  them and accept the words they advent.

As I come to know our livelihood was so down from my grandfather and all the responsibilities came to my dad and still its tragic that  i can just listen them and prepare for my future endeavor. I am the youngest child in my family and I received potential love and care from all of my family members.

We were five in total. My dad, mom, elder brother, elder sister and me as a happy family. To be honest with open and heavy heart I have to reveal the condition of my dad. As I knew my father was all right when he married to my mom and still at better condition  around his 30. Time passes my father soon started to lose his mental state that he couldn’t take the things seriously rather he  started opposing others opinions. He started to chat a lot whether it is sensible or not. As a result, to convey my dad to stay  in order my mom, brother and sister had to suffer a lot. There was no proper care and treatment at that time where my father would have been at better state if the cause would have known and we had an effort to treat him bringing in cities. It was a talk about 40-50 years back. Everything was dull with my father so that my mother had to face a lot of pain and suffered a lot as she cries now reflecting the moment.

At the moment my father is at retired age where he takes rest with some medication on daily basis. As we know weaning ages and medicine leads in weakness, we still need to guide him. Except showering love and affection, I couldn’t have done anything to my dad. I am trying so hard to keep my parents happy and healthy and I keep them in my prayers. It would have been so lovely if my father was at better state and god had showed him a proper path with some awakening dreams to chase.